The first meetings follow the same rules (adventure or not) but there are some tips that we can deliver, especially if you are a couple for a long time and you have forgotten how.

Meeting Arrangement

Before your first meeting, before you even leave home, you must make sure you are on top. Are your clothes clean? Ironed? Are you shaved? Have you cleaned your nails, your teeth? Brushed your hair? We only have one chance to make a good first impression. So make sure you have done everything before going out.


If you dine at 8pm, be there at 8pm, or even a few minutes early.  Punctuality is very important. It reveals your personality, organized, thoughtful? If you cannot arrive on time, your appointment will be worried, and will doubt your involvement. If you know you will be late, or you cannot be there, tell the person who is waiting for you. He / she has a wife (a husband), who is waiting for her a little later. If you are half an hour late, your meeting will be cut short and if you have a curfew yourself, talk to your arrival. The best solution is always to be on time to enjoy this meeting.

No Disturbance

When you arrive,turn off your laptop, or put it in silent mode. There is nothing more impolite than a telephone ring, or worse, to answer in the middle of the meal or to send sums. If you must absolutely call, excuse yourself, go to the bathroom and discreetly make your phone call. That does not mean you can stay there for fifteen minutes.  You also can not go to the bathroom every ten minutes (your appointment will then think you are not digesting anything.)

Be polite, and stay there all night long

Nobody likes someone rude or arrogant. Being condescending with the staff is the fastest method for the other person to quickly hate your company. And yes, you should also know the answer to When To Kiss Your Date?

When the dishes arrive, eat closed mouth

This rule has been well taught to most people during childhood, and to see an adult disobeying it and speaking with a full mouth at the entrance is almost sacrilege. Never do it.  Finish your bite before expressing yourself.

Now that we have considered the basics of behavior, we will refocus on the conversation.

Do not be pissed off

You are an adult at a gallant date. Knowing how to hold a conversation is the sign that proves that you are an educated and intelligent person. Remember to listen to your appointment; the conversation must be an exchange, not just a monologue. As the meeting progresses, you may begin to think that it is a traditional meeting. This is not the case.  Respect the other person’s privacy; check that you are compatible for an adventure, not for the life of a couple. Your family, children and home should not be part of the conversation.

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